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New year and new me ..

Hello whoever is out there... I know I have been sucking at blogging lately but I want to get back in the swing of things. There have been a lot of new beginnings in my life and I have been adjusting to all of them and took the time to do so. Now I think I will ease back into expressing my fashion choices my way and allowing others to come along.

I am going to start posting once a week to get back in the habit and then I think I will be able to increase as my schedule permits. I have been reflecting and I love fashion and people seem to love my fashion choices so I want to speak to my aesthetic and hopefully people will like and follow.

I will start with listing what I buy and also outfit of the days Bc I work in a business causal environment but that doesn’t limit me from self expression and I want to convey that to others .

My outfit today is a bit muted Bc of the rain , I usually tailor my outfits to the weather . So no heels or mules today. Just causal with my usually favorites ta…
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November Wishlist

Hi Guys,

Soooooooo yea I haven't been as dedicated as my mind wanted to be. It is like my mind and my abilities aren't on the same page when it comes to incorporating blogging back into my life. Now I can say I have arranged my schedule in a way to fit it in and be able to express myself beyond talking to a 5 year old all day or attending activities with tons of toddlers. I digress I can go on and on about my single mom diaries which I think I might do a weekly blog on because of this I have decided to change my blog name again I know I know but I feel that me speaking on my fashion choices as well as my plight as a single mom I think I will be able to help other moms as well as vent my feelings and frustrations. So here we go.

I am listing my November wishlist. For all you don't know I am a shopaholic. I love fashion I was born loving fashion and its funny my daughter loves it as well. I normally go on a spending fast before black Friday just to purge from pre-fall shoppi…

My Latest Purchases

I have been doing a little shopping here and there and naturally my blog name encompasses the word shopaholic. If you are plus size you should not let your size define you , you should always shop according to your body shape. Shopping this way should lead you to non conventional stores for plus size. Some of my favorite places to shop now are express for jeans, Topshop, Hautelook for everything , Nordstrom, Target, Boohoo, Asos, Zara and many more. My new weekly post will be what I bought for that week , so below here are some of the things I purchased this week. Enjoy!!

Shoes from Topshop

Jeans from Express

I ordered a few items from Boohoo I will do a post on those after I receive the items and do a review of them. I am a little concerned with the sizing sometimes its off a bit. Look for that blog post soon.

Im back, and for real this time lol.

My last post was in 2013 and I vowed that I would be back and start posting 3 times a week and that was my last post :(.  I was just getting divorced and I guess getting back to me was more time consuming than I expected. My daughter is now 5 and I am in a place where I need an outlet. Blogging was always a way of expression and a release for me so I decided to return.

Glad to be back ..

If you are visiting for the first time WELCOME...

I'm Back !!!!!!

Omg I didn't realize it had been a year . Time passes by so fast and a lot has changes since I lost blogged. Let's see I will keep it brief . I had a baby as you all know she is now 2 and a total mini me , love her . I am getting divorced never thought I would would ever say that but things happen and I must say I am doing great God has really provided not only financially but spiritually . Let's see what else? Still trying to lost baby weight and Maliyah is 2 lol I gained 70 pounds only 25 more to go . Got a promotion at work . Lastly bought some great clothes and as always gave a lot of them away . I will try to post OOTD at least 3 times a week . Later I will post my favorite trends and shoe and bag buys. I have been shopping like crazy . I'm glad to be back this is like therapy lol if I would have know this I would have come back much sooner but when you have a 2 year old they become your life and it's hard to balance but I think I got it now 😊. 
Sweater: forev…

Abstract and Neon

Today I was trying to wear a trend but ended up wearing two. I loved this shirt when I saw it at Jcpenny can I just say WELCOME NINA G. Since Nina took over the clothes are omg. GORGE. Well before she came they had made some strides with the Charlotte Ronson, Arden B, and Olsenboyle. They have really added more fashion foward options to their arsenal and it looks great. You see all the trends from leather, neon, abtract , tribal etc. You have to go check them out. They have this great color block blazer I have to have. I will do a post on my top pics from there later in the week. The pumps I found out about from Brittney on Pockets and Bows one of my favorite blogs.

The shoes are a look alike from the Christian Loubutin Un bout pump. I wasnt really sure when I looked on go jane but I ordered them anyway bc I was in love with the pump when I saw Beyonce and  Kim Kardashian in them. I ordered the neon green in a 8.5 and they fit and look cute and not cheap at all. I have gotten several…

Body Con at work??

Hi Guys,

I decided to wear a body con skirt today at work. I was going for the cool casual look like the put together look but not. I think I acheived it. I work a kind of  long shirt but I didnt like how it looked with no structure so I added a belt. Without the belt it made me look bigger. Attention ladies just because you are a little thicker than the norm dont hide your figure in big oversized clothes it just makes you look larger and doesnt really work out. I have alot behind me if you know what I mean and I was going to work and not a party so I had to make sure even with the belt the shirt covered most of the backside and it did. Turned out to be really cute. I didnt want to match all the way down I wanted to make it less serious and more casual so I added my neon pink sandals to add some flair. Check it out.

Shirt: Old Navy
Skirt: Forever 21
Shoes: Target
Jewelry: Jcpenny and Burlington